tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062424955786427474.post9051017980164404018..comments2023-10-25T11:54:51.377-04:00Comments on Adventures in Estrogen: Porn Is Great & Porn Is Good...SortaLady Estrogenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13317661832390573264noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062424955786427474.post-9690126983132266902011-12-02T08:41:23.414-05:002011-12-02T08:41:23.414-05:00When it comes to porn, just like everything else, ...When it comes to porn, just like everything else, I think that the key word here is moderation. <br /><br />Deacon Blue presented an interesting perspective on treating porn just like any other industry out there. What he said makes sense, and IF porn is really something you're really into, then I too would recommend what he's mentioned in this post regarding choosing the right ones.<br /><br />However, the sad thing about it, is that just like everything else (e.g. movie piracy), there's just no guarantee that people could exercise judgment in choosing which porn they watch. What comes to mind are the uneducated, underaged, or those in the lower socio-economic levels. <br /><br />To my knowledge, industries that treat their employees well, or where the workers have some sort of autonomy also come with a higher price (in the same way fake dvds are cheaper). So this is where it sort of becomes a gray area when it comes to porn. And we all know, exploitations tend to go hand-in-hand with cheaper costs, unfortunately.Sweatyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07886118636402604168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062424955786427474.post-23253805823827084562011-12-01T19:29:28.273-05:002011-12-01T19:29:28.273-05:00Wow, interesting point of view!
You are right ab...Wow, interesting point of view! <br /><br />You are right about 'bad' porn, and that's the stuff I have a problem with. It seems like so much out there is just flat out nasty and degrading. I know, it's all in the eye of the beholder, but geez, some of it is pretty bad. However, unlike some women (and men) I don't think ALL porn is degrading, or even most of it. Extremes in anything, porn, politics, religion, whatever, are going to make the most noise. Most everyone else falls somewhere in the middle.Vesta Vaynehttp://cowardlyfeminist.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062424955786427474.post-52898717650949760302011-12-01T16:26:54.335-05:002011-12-01T16:26:54.335-05:00I want to move to Canada and attend Deacon Blues c...I want to move to Canada and attend Deacon Blues church. :)Mrs. Supernaturalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04821945363628727498noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062424955786427474.post-89575865720308980842011-11-30T13:00:08.962-05:002011-11-30T13:00:08.962-05:00@ Lost.in.Idaho
Always had a soft spot (or maybe ...@ Lost.in.Idaho<br /><br />Always had a soft spot (or maybe not so soft) for Asian women, given that I grew up around so many in Silicon Valley.<br /><br />@ Serge<br /><br />Good point. Call me a picky, pretentious porn consumer, but nothing takes me out of the moment quite like a wholly fake, ridonkulous orgasm. Might also be a reason I like fem-on-fem so much onscreen...there isn't as much pressure to fake or rush the outcome.Deacon Bluehttp://holyhell.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062424955786427474.post-67406225809806926512011-11-30T11:30:13.543-05:002011-11-30T11:30:13.543-05:00I forgot
3. Not enough believable lady orgasms
@D...I forgot<br />3. Not enough believable lady orgasms<br /><br />@DeaconBlue I do like my chocolate with a plot.It's that Serge againnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062424955786427474.post-59057988300509405612011-11-30T10:23:23.721-05:002011-11-30T10:23:23.721-05:00I can't always say "I buy American" ...I can't always say "I buy American" when it comes to porn. I have a little bit of an asian thing going on...<br /><br />And I agree with this post. Porn, like a lot of things, is only as bad as you make it.<br /><br />Excellent post!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02993699573170596587noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062424955786427474.post-13768626915054063692011-11-30T10:14:47.814-05:002011-11-30T10:14:47.814-05:00@ Lady Estrogen
Loved your addendum at the end ab...@ Lady Estrogen<br /><br />Loved your addendum at the end about chocolate. Great analogy.<br /><br />@ Mrs. Sherman<br /><br />Straight-ahead porn is good for working me up, but I admit the more kinky or theme-oriented stuff is what drives the creativity, esp. as the wife and I broaden our horizons in middle age<br /><br />@ Serge<br /><br />I would guide you to the good chocolate, but the problem is we all have different tastes. You might like milk chocolate with toffee bits and I might like 85% dark chocolate with cherries and chiles. ;-)<br /><br />I agree about kissing. But then again, I find the sexiest scenes in porn to be lip-oriented, and among the things that make me most hot would be two women kissing. It's one of the most beautiful things around IMHO.<br /><br />However, I have to contend (a little) your sex education point. I think there's some truth in it, but kids have always had ready access to incorrect and misleading information about sex, usually from peers and older youth/teens who think they know something or know someone who "did it." The medium has changed, and intensified somewhat, but the dynamic is the same.<br /><br />Shaved pubes probably has more to do with our obsession that our bodies never be natural (never smell even a little like sweat, douche your vagina, etc. ... it's all overblown and over-embraced by consumers)<br /><br />Also, with your fast food analogy, there IS gourmet porn out there. Believe it or not, some porn has plotting, characterization, dialogue and artistry.<br /><br />@ Zombie<br /><br />Thanks<br /><br />@ Jessica<br /><br />Sadly, as the saying goes, "common sense isn't all that common."Deacon Bluehttp://holyhell.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062424955786427474.post-73713453678501544782011-11-30T10:11:29.550-05:002011-11-30T10:11:29.550-05:00I agree totally with Deacon, what Lady E has said ...I agree totally with Deacon, what Lady E has said above and Serge. Seriously if people just had some common sense about it and everything else for that matter porn and everything else wouldn't be an issue.Jessica ( frellathon )https://www.blogger.com/profile/08866967000173331227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062424955786427474.post-29401701401418354402011-11-30T09:29:00.835-05:002011-11-30T09:29:00.835-05:00@Serge
Right. I agree with you on those point too...@Serge<br /><br />Right. I agree with you on those point too - I think that aside from under-age viewing, etc, etc... we're focusing on the 'right' way to use porn.<br /><br />I don't rely on it for guidance, nor do I NEED it to get off. Once and a while (maybe a few times a year, really) hubs and I will bring the laptop into the bedroom and have some fun. I think that's normal. Also, we understand the role of porn in our relationship, and its role as a whole.<br /><br />We are the 1%.<br /><br />HahahaLady Estrogenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13317661832390573264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062424955786427474.post-63837846128017360692011-11-30T09:28:42.383-05:002011-11-30T09:28:42.383-05:00Never before have I seen an honest write up about ...Never before have I seen an honest write up about porn. Very nicely done. :DZombiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18274779347167552161noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062424955786427474.post-33959178359768892732011-11-30T09:18:06.965-05:002011-11-30T09:18:06.965-05:00Problems with porn:
1. Porn provides sex educatio...Problems with porn:<br /><br />1. Porn provides sex education to any kid who can get alone-time on the internet. Probably why so many guys hanker after shaved pussies, anal sex and no emotion. Even as a guy it's fun to be objectified but give us a break and show some emotion.<br /><br />2. Following on from 1. Not enough kissing.<br /><br />Porn is like food. The fact that most people are chowing down on fast food burgers doesn't mean gourmet eateries don't exist. In the meantime folks have forgotten how to cook.Serge (again)noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062424955786427474.post-84822288180052488862011-11-30T07:31:40.468-05:002011-11-30T07:31:40.468-05:00I have had too much bad chocolate in my time. Plea...I have had too much bad chocolate in my time. Please guide me to the good stuff.Sergenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062424955786427474.post-52817760094927168342011-11-30T02:25:11.826-05:002011-11-30T02:25:11.826-05:00I would never want to be with a man who does not w...I would never want to be with a man who does not watch porn! Sorry but that can unleash a lot of creativity! I enjoy porn whether with my husband or myself! Our bodies and desires are attracted and turned on whether we like it or not, in my opinion fighting nature is what is evil!<br /><br />Fellow porn lover..even got my rocks off today while hubby was at work watching porn!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02257825072399438300noreply@blogger.com